Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Told you so

With all of our warnings to the doctors about Maggie's tolerance to the feeds, she finally "spoke" for herself this morning by throwing up her entire stomach contents. Thankfully what came up had no inkling of blood in it, which was a good sign. With this episode, they decided to get Maggie some gut rest today with the idea of starting her on feeds tomorrow. I spoke with Maggie's primary GI doctor today and he agreed that Maggie should only be given half of what she is receiving now and to put her back on TPN again. This way, Maggie is still working her gut, but she will be at a place that she can tolerate it better and also get the nutrition she needs through the TPN. The hope too, is that her distended belly will get better and allow her lungs to expand more, giving her as much chance as possible for recovery.

Other than the exciting morning vomit, Maggie had a fairly quiet day. She was awake some, but didn't get overly agitated. Her port was again accessed because she is getting TPN again. She had physical therapy, where they tried to work out her legs. This ended up making her pretty upset and she cried. That was the end of PT. It was decided we will not continue until Maggie can tolerate it more, so they will try to position her legs to give her the best possible hip/leg support. She currently is very content to lay in a "frog" position, which could lead to stiffness over time.

They have made some changes to Maggie's vent settings as well today. I don't believe they felt very confident in the changes that were going to be made, as Maggie's CO2 had climbed overnight, but they tried anyways. She has adjusted well to the changes in her pressure & oxygen levels. We hope this is a sign that her lungs are getting better.

We have seen small signs of improvement today, which we are happy with. In the last few days, we have grown quite weary of our situation and the time we have spent watching Maggie. It is hard to see her awake and flailing about due to sedation. It is hard to watch her cry. Again, it's hard to not be able to comfort her when that is really what she wants and needs. We have become a bit impatient waiting for her to get better and I think this affects our psyche sometimes. If we can continue having days that we had today (minus of course the vomit), we can handle it.

Please continue to pray for our Maggie.

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

Just wanted to let you know many people you don't know are praying for your little Maggie. I know of her through your friend Katie, we ran the Disney marathon together. I wish you well and hope everyday you can find the strength to get through these hard times. I will continue to check back and also the prayers. May God be with you.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Dear God for a better day. Please continue to heal Little Maggie,and give her dear parents and family peace and hope.
With Love and Well Wishes from Tennessee. Will continue to pray
for you all.

Anonymous said...

Hooray!!! Though still hard, today sounds better, and perhaps the docs will be a little more attentive to your opinions. You know, everyone in healthcare says they put the patient first and that parents know their child better than anyone else, but its difficult when you get into a rythmn, usually deal with parents who don't have much medical knowledge and (from the provider's perspective) don't see the big picture. Your advocacy for Maggie has made such a difference. Our prayers continue every day. Hope you and Andy get some sleep tonight

Pam and Dick

Anonymous said...

So glad to hear that today went a little better. I think about you guys and pray for you daily...and I will continue to do so.
love,
Donya

Anonymous said...

Precious Maggie,
We pray that you will have a good day tomorrow as well. That you will be able to tolerate all the changes and that you will not vomit again. We pray for you often throughout the day. Hugs to your parents and Kisses to you.

Love,
Larry and Sue Archer

Debbie said...

That's our girl - if the docs won't listen to your mom and dad, you show 'em! I'm so thankful for Maggie's wonderful spirit!

Debbie M.

Anonymous said...

Praying that maggie continues to heal in the days ahead ~mz

Jessica said...

Thanks for continuing to update, we in Dayton are always wondering how little Maggie is doing. Keep advocating for her, mom and dad know best!

We are all thinking of her and praying and hoping for the best for Maggie. She has proven to be a fighter, keep fighting with her.

Jessica Whitlock

The Barnett Family said...

Still checking in on you guys everyday. Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I can sense and feel your despair. But thankfully, she has made it through the worst of this and you will be taking your Maggie home with you. Now your patience will be tested, before it was your strength. You guys can do it and you will. Your devotion is awesome. Thanks for keeping up with the blog as it means so much to us all. Love and prayers to the whole Bixler family.

Anonymous said...

Easter is almost here.

Light and hope after darkness.

Love and prayers always.

Great Aunt Phyllis

Anonymous said...

Hooray for a quieter day! Praying for your little Maggie and the healing that needs to take place in her body, as well for the two of you during this time of waiting and watching.

Thanks for the blog- it helps us know what to be praying for and what to be thankful for!

Prayers and hugs from "the Burgh"
EMB

Anonymous said...

Keep voicing your knowledge of your daughter to the doctors! Thank God...no blood when she got sick....Why can they not put her in your arms and let you rock her? How do they "know" that would not be the best medicine for her... Hold on dear parents...Maggie is making your thread stronger! I will continue to pray.
T.

Anonymous said...

So glad that yesterday was a better day despite the vomiting. Praying that today will also be a good day, with only pleasant surprises, so that Maggie can continue to recover. Praying for you, Whitney & Andy, each time I pray for Maggie. Love from Cousin Carol

Shelly said...

praying, always, praying

Susan DiGiorgio said...

Hooray for Maggie and all of you! She is handling the changed setings and that is great! I willcontinue to pray!
Susan D.

Joee Leupold said...

You don't know me, but I feel like I know your family a little bit. I was directed to your blog by someone I know on facebook. I feel I know you because I have cried along with you as you are going through these things with your very beautiful and precious little girl. I have been praying for her and I hope that God's healing hand is upon her and she will get to go home with you soon. May God's blessings be upon your family.
-Hugs and Prayers,
Joee

Anonymous said...

So glad to hear of the little improvements that you are seeing. We will pray that over the next few days that continues to be the trend.
Love Always,
Nat and Andy